People have a lot of opinions about romantic and sexual relationships. Too many of us have suffered because of someone else’s definition of what a “proper” or “Biblical” relationship is (::eye roll:: at “one man and one woman only”). We believe that there are lots of faithful ways to structure your relationships — including polyamory and/or open relationships.
We’re developing resources, courses, coaching, and community to support Christians who are in open or polyamorous relationships — or who are interested in exploring them.
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Love Beyond Monogamy: How Polyamory Can Enrich Your Spirituality, Faith, and Relationships
AVAILABLE FOR PRE-ORDER NOW | OUT SEPTEMBER 18, 2025
Integrating your spirituality and sexuality can be daunting – these parts of life can feel very separate, even contradictory. Activist, educator, relationship coach and co-founder of QueerTheology.com, Brian G. Murphy, is here to change that.
Exploring the spiritual roots of polyamory and drawing on his own personal perspectives, Brian guides you through essential spiritual and relational notions including love, ritual, commitment and vulnerability to show how the practices of queerness, polyamory, and faith can complement and sustain each other.
Whether you practice non-monogamy or simply want to broaden your understanding of love, this empowering book will break open your assumptions and encourage you to consider the expansive possibilities for (re)structuring your relationships and faith. From advice on healing from spiritual shame, reframing underlying cultural myths, dealing with loss and shame, understanding commitment and faithfulness, and creating meaningful traditions and rituals, this is the perfect companion for connecting with your true values and carving out your own path.
Get 20% off when you used promo code LoveBeyond20 and order directly from the publisher, JKP. Now through June 30.
More polyamory & spirituality resources (and even more coming soon!)
What I’ve Learned From My Polyamorous Friends
I am not polyamorous. As a pretty extreme introvert the thought of being polyamorous makes me feel exhausted. So when
The Bible, Monogamy, and Polyamory
Folks talk an awful lot about “what the Bible says” about all sorts of relationships. The Bible says gay relationships
The Nuts and Bolts of Creating A Sexual Ethic
I trust you — yes you! — to formulate a sexual ethic that works for you and is in alignment with your faith and your values.